#17: So Obsessed
Things that are typically considered “creepy” when men do them are usually considered “quirky” or “funny” when women do the exact same thing. Behavior that’s kind of obsessive or straight-up stalker status seems to be given a pass when a woman admits to doing it. Let’s be clear: stalking is creepy and wrong no matter who is doing it. It can be super scary for the person being stalked and it is not okay.
It’s just kind of weird how we just accept when a girl does it instead of calling it out as inappropriate. One Redditor shared that his female friend admits to having a folder on her phone that has a bunch of random photos of people taken without their knowledge or permission. Excuse me?! We’re just supposed to think that’s cool to do since she’s a woman and not a guy?